Most likely due to her sickness, Little Miss has been extra sensitive and cranky (read this as a giant pain in our backsides). She was either bratty or super sensitive. So, Husband was at the end of his rope. He was tired of her crying constantly over mundane tasks. So, in order to save both of their mental well-being, I told Little Miss that if she works at being a good girl and works at her listening skills, she can have 3 books each night before bed. She generally gets 2 so this is a slight treat. However, if she wasn't listening or acting up, we take away a book until she gets nothing. The first night was a giant success, and the threat of taking a book away this morning was enough to change her behavior. I'd like to move to a reward system, but this system is working on a short-term basis for quick, focused behavior change.
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Nephew was perfectly content playing with my iPad and watching his favorite show. He felt the strain of entertaining the entire family and went to bed after giving up on the New York Jets. On Friday, Little Miss still wasn't 100%, but she begged to go for a walk. Instead, she took a 3-hour nap, but she wanted to take a walk afterwards. So, I took her out. She asked to go to Macy's so we did and picked her up a Christmas outfit. 15 minutes into our walk, she said she was really tired and wanted to go home. Saturday was very similar except she really wanted to go to the Inlaws' apartment so we dropped her off for a sleepover. Saturday was the first day that she didn't have a fever though she was still exhausted. Husband and I met friends out at a local bar to watch a football game. Little Miss was still worn down on Sunday but kept the fever off at least. We kept her home on Monday, but she's back at school this week. Her cough finally let up a little, but the fatigue is taking awhile to disappear. I think she'll be good after this weekend. She's had trouble sleeping and this is the first week after 2 partial weeks so it takes a bit of time to get back into a routine.
She and Nephew played so well together. They hid out for a long time on the top bunk just talking and playing. They ran all over together in the water park, played on the big water structure and in the wave pool. It was just adorable. Funny coincidence that friends of ours were also there so we got to see some familiar faces 3 hours away from home.
The next day, we met up with my parents, sister and Nephew and went to Great Wolf Lodge. More on that in the next post.
Work Thanksgiving is always fun. It's so much food. I love that it's pot luck because we really great a great variety of fantastic food. Some of it is even warm. Actually, a lot of it is warm, but it's just difficult to heat up all of those dishes and keep them all warm for the entire office to sample. As with one of the years past, I made cranberry sauce. Most people dislike cranberry sauce or, at the very least, are indifferent. I love it, but it has to be whole berry.
Here is my recipe:
1 cup sugar
1 cup water
2 teaspoons orange zest
2 tablespoons Cointreau liqueur
- Combine sugar and water in a medium saucepan.
- Bring to a boil; add cranberries, return to a boil.
- Reduce heat and boil gently for 10 minutes, stirring occasionally. (Cover so the cranberries don't spit at you while they pop.)
- Remove from heat. Add orange zest and Cointreau (or Grand Marnier) and stir.
- Let cool at room temperature.
- Refrigerate until cold, or serve at room temperature. The longer it sits or chills, the more it turns to jelly which is nice.
On Sunday, we went out to my parents' house because my grandparents were in town. Little Miss really enjoyed her time with her cousin, but she was having some trouble keeping up with the big boys. Later, after Sister and Nephew left, she really enjoyed having her great-grandparents' attention all to herself.
Friday, November 16, 2012
Friday, November 9, 2012
Wednesday, November 7, 2012
Last night, while I was reclining on the couch, Husband took the lead with Little Miss. She took out her crayons and paper to draw. Husband wanted to tell her something. Without looking up, she says to him, "Not right now, Daddy, I'm working."
Further tidbit, she was working on a family of 12 ghosts. So cute. She's been quite the little artist lately and really starting to draw things that look like objects. Her work from school is very impressive. Tomorrow is our parent/teacher conference so I'm really interested in what the teacher has to share.
Show and Tell is usually on Friday. We generally forget. This week, because there is no school Thursday and Friday, Show and Tell was moved up. I told Little Miss to remind me last night so we could get it all together. Then, I wasn't feeling well. And, well, we forgot. We pull into the school parking lot, and she goes, "Mommy, we don't have Show and Tell."
So, I figure I must have something in my bag, but I check the trunk first. We decide a reusable shopping BAG starts with "B", but then I find a discarded, broken set of beads so she takes that instead. While walking inside, I also remembered that she had a book in her backpack so I also convince her that BOOK and BACKPACK also start with "B" so she was more than set.
I felt a great sense of accomplishment in the last moment before being handed the Worst Mother in the World trophy.
Monday, November 5, 2012
Over the last year, Little Miss has been mastering the art of joke telling. Now, toddlers learning to tell jokes is probably the funniest thing ever. They're very literal. Plus, they find themselves hilarious. It took Little Miss about 6 months to figure out the Interrupting Cow joke.
In case you didn't know it, it goes like this:
#1: Knock, knock.
#2: Who's there?
#1: Interrupting cow.
#2: Interrup -
So, the other day in the car, Little Miss says a classmate came up to her and said, "Tangerine!" She just started laughing and laughing. Tears-in-her-eyes-laughing. She goes, "Get it, Mommy? TANGERINE!"
I didn't, of course, but I laughed along with her.
Little Miss made me promise not to tell anyone this, but since then, I've told like everyone I know. So, Little Miss told me that her cousins are like her brothers, that she loves being a "sister". It was so flippin' cute. She told me she wanted a sister. I did my usual nodding and smiling. Yesterday, I asked what she'd like to name her sister (this response changes often which is why I like to ask). So, she said "Sophia". Husband's last name starts with an "S" so I asked her if she thought that sounded silly to have an alliterative name. She said that wouldn't be her name. So, I asked what her name would be. She answered, "Sophia Tulip".
It does seem like family tradition to have a name after a flower as my grandmothers are and were Violet and Fern. Tulip seems too much, but what do I know.
Last Friday, Little Miss had a Halloween parade at school. Earlier in the week, I sent in cookies and goody bags for her birthday, too. We told her that we couldn't make it because we had to work, but we would make it to her Thanksgiving show. She was ok with that, but Husband surprised her at the parade at the last minute which made her so happy.
Above is photographic proof that she lives in her Snow White costume. I came home from a night out with a friend last Friday, and this is what greeted me when I went into Little Miss's room. I had to take a picture!
Little Miss is doing a great job as an early reader. She's not independently reading, but she recognizes so many words and is reading many simple books - namely Mo Willems's Elephant & Piggy books. She has quite a bit of them. Last weekend, she went so far as to read her birthday cards to my grandparents. She's so proud of herself. It's really adorable. She loves books. As much as she loves tv, she does love games, arts and crafts and books. Mostly, she watches tv when it's most convenient for us.
I'll try to get her on video reading soon. I keep forgetting because I don't want to get her self-conscious or have her get too showy for the camera.
Just to put it out there, we weathered Sandy just fine. We made the mistake of telling Little Miss that, if she was scared, she could come sleep in our room. The first night, we plunked her back in her bed. The second night, when Sandy was actually supposed to hit, we blew up her air mattress. So, she went straight there and slept on the floor instead of with us which meant we all got a good night's sleep. None of us had to report to work or school Monday and Tuesday so we just hung out. Husband and I had some light work to do. Little Miss played with her new toys, and we did some arts and crafts. On Tuesday, after the worst of the storm blew through, we took a walk to rid ourselves of cabin fever. We had lunch and walked around the neighborhood.
We did lose water for half the day on Monday. We lost power for an hour or so while they tried to repair our water. Overall, it was an adventure. We snacked without the power. Little Miss liked the flashlights and candles. Then, just when the novelty was about to wear off, everything came back up. I think she had the most issue with the fact we couldn't flush. Then again, we all had a little issue with that. Still, all in all, we can't complain when others suffered (and still suffer from) so much damage.
Two weekends ago, Little Miss turned 5. 5! My parents came out to watch Little Miss play soccer and then were a big help getting ready for the party. There was a very small amount of time between the two. We had chicken tenders, finger foods and those Mummy Dogs. There were 2 beautiful cakes made by my father-in-law. There was a movie playing as well as arts and crafts, a bean bag toss, decorate your own pumpkin (gourd) and ring toss. Mostly, the kids liked the run around though.
Little Miss received many nice things for her birthday. She's played with a lot of things which is different from the past. She's declared dolls from her favorite show and a trunk full of dress up clothes were her favorite. As a matter of fact, she's worn her Snow White costume almost every day. I've had to hand wash it three times in the last week. She's even gone so far as sleep in it. I think the party was a success and much tamer than last year.
Friday, November 2, 2012
- Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
- A Fool’s Gold Christmas by Susan Mallery (NOTE: This is the first of the Fool’s Gold series. The order of which can be found here.)
- My Liege of Dark Haven by Cherise Sinclair (NOTE: This is part of the Mountain Masters/Dark Haven series. The order of which can be found here.)
- Coming Undone by Lauren Dane (NOTE: This is the second book of the Brown siblings about the Brown siblings and their friends. The order of which can be found here.)
- Inside Out by Lauren Dane (NOTE: This is the third book of the Brown siblings about the Brown siblings and their friends. The order of which can be found here.)
- Changing the Game by Jaci Burton (NOTE: This is the first of the Play-by-Play series. The order of which can be found here.)
- Taking a Shot by Jaci Burton (NOTE: This is the first of the Play-by-Play series. The order of which can be found here.)
- Playing to Win by Jaci Burton (NOTE: This is the first of the Play-by-Play series. The order of which can be found here.)
- Laid Bare by Lauren Dane (NOTE: This is the first book of the Brown siblings about the Brown siblings and their friends. The order of which can be found here.)
I can't admit honestly that I'm a huge fan of Zac Efron. That said, I'll admit that I no longer see him as a kid. I don't see him quite as an adult though. One of my many issues with The Lucky One is that I kept viewing him as a kid mixed in with all the adults. Still, if I was a little younger, I'd find him completely dreamy.